mc_pos_control: fix smooth takeoff ramp

- start from a velocity setpoint pushing into the ground
to ramp from idle thrust up.
- start with a bit higher velocity setpoint threshold to make
sure the vehicle has a chance to really get off the ground.
- calculate ramp slope from initialization setpoint to the desired one
instead from zero to the desired. this ramps up quicker when you demand
a very small upwards velocity like the AutoLineSmoothVel and
ManualPositionSmoothVel tasks do at the beginning.
- don't stay in the takeoff ramp depending on the land detector, this
is unnecessary.