mc_pos_control: switch back to velocity ramp

But fix the two crucial problems:
- When to begin the ramp?
There's a calculation now for the velocity ramp initial value
such that the resulting thrust is zero at the beginning.
- When to end the ramp?
The ramp is applied to the upwards velocity constraint and it
just ramps from the initial value to the velocity constraint
which is applied during flight. Slower/going down is always possible.